DESPICABLE
This is Tami Hodge. We were together for 9 years until September of 2021.
I never imagined I'd be doing something like this, but I never thought I'd meet a narcissistic nymphomaniac either. Let's set the record straight. She's spread so much bullshit about me, there's really no other choice but to expose her for who she is, what she is, and what I've learned she's done.
Vanisa, the woman I had been with for over 20 years, died suddenly in 2011. She knew Tami and they were friends, though it didn't start out that way. Tami's husband had been working with me. Tami, her husband and their 2 kids moved into my house after Vanisa died to take care of the place and the animals we had there. They were also helping me get a new place I had bought into shape to move into which took several months.
Around Christmas that year, Tami and her husband began having trouble. I liked them both. I told him to eat some crow if that's what it took and make things right with Tami. They'd been together 18 years. I don't know what happened but it didn't work out. I even told him a couple of times that if they divorced, I'd be first in line, so "don't screw it up and fix it". They wound up getting a divorce. After their divorce Tami and her girls stayed in the house and we began going out. She was answering the phones and dispatching calls to me. This went on for over a year before I decided I was going to sell the house so I asked Tami to move in with me, which she did. The girls could stay in the house until it was sold. Before long though, selling the house went to the back burner. I had other things to deal with at the time and the girls didn't have anywhere else to go so...
THE BUSINESS
I have an A/C company, and Vanisa handled the business side. Phones, books, bills. The usual stuff. Tami began doing the same, but in the course of trying to work with her to get her she'd get very emotional and start crying. We couldn't make much progress. Though I tried several times it became simpler to let her learn at her own pace to minimize her obvious strain. I didn't look at the books for a long time because it would only cause problems, and Tami would get upset. Rather than stay on top of things, she'd melt down. I have a great CPA so he works everything out, but that became a crutch for Tami. Tami would spend 2 hours every morning on her makeup and it takes less time to keep the books straight. She isn't good with stress. I never knew what was going to upset her so I always tried to keep things as stress free as possible, but there is stress at times.
After all, this is life.
Bills would regularly go late though we had money. Registering new units was very important and many didn't get registered because she just wouldn't do it. I trusted her to take care of things and that was a huge mistake. I've learned after the fact that Tami is far from trustworthy. She's a liar, a cheater and a fraud. On her facebook and instagram pages she tries to come off as virtuous, but as it turns out, nothing could be farther from the truth. I was completely fooled. Shame on me for not handling things differently. I never should have trusted her.
Not registering the units we install is a MAJOR screw up. No matter how many times I spoke to her about it, I'd get nothing. She couldn't have cared less. I'd get notifications about bills being late and I would ask her time and time again to try to keep up with things to no avail. Things only got worse. In the end she was sending me calls with the wrong phone numbers so I couldn't contact the customers in a timely manner, and more often than not they wound up getting someone else that could communicate better.
She's consistently late with the bills and the credit card payments. It wasn't about not having the money. She just didn't care. She had more important things on her mind like her makeup, instagram, snapchat, facebook and cheating.
She's self absorbed and nothing else matters more than her vanity. Not her pets, her children, her grandchildren and certainly not me. No matter what I said, or how much I pleaded with her, things never improved.
Below I cover her her issues. She claims I 'took her daughters', 'took her animals', and 'wouldn't let her be a teacher'. We only had 2 conversations about her being a teacher. I merely said that I'd have to pay someone to replace her, and she wouldn't make that much teaching, so we'd be losing money. She never pressed it beyond that, otherwise she could have done what she wanted, of course.
She's grasping at straws trying to find something to blame me for after she's been outed by her friend.
THE ANIMALS
The short of it is, I had 14 cats and 1 dog that was Vanisa's. I didn't care for him to begin with, but once I got to know him, he was really great. He didn't just run around barking. If he did, there was something there, every single time. He would even break up cat fights and got along with the cats just fine. The problem was, Tami has a thing for big dogs. We tried it with several but they would bother the cats. Chase them. Bully them, etc. A couple even killed some of my cats, so with me, if they didn't get along and disrupted the place, they had to go. Tami hated me for doing so. The fact that they were contstantly bothering, or killing the cats, meant nothing to her. She's still pissed about it, and refused to admit they were a problem. To Tami, it just didn't matter.
THE INSURANCE
Tami's thing with insurance is unbelievable. She just wouldn't stay on top of things and keep the premiums paid. There are 3 incidents all together. First, I have an accident on I-10. A truck rolled about 1/4 mile in front of us and everyone panic stopped. I couldn't stop in time and rear ended a van. A few weeks later Tami is sobbing. She tells me she hadn't renewed our commercial insurance policy. I was stunned. This was a big deal. I've paid this policy on time for decades. I was probably going to get sued, which I did. We didn't have a lot of money at the time, now I find it was because of her mismanagement, but we had enough to pay the premium and she's even admitted it. This resulted in a judgment against me for a little over 11k. Needless to say I wasn't happy about it but I didn't say much. I was very disappointed but figured she would learn a lesson out of it and it was just a mistake. Hopefully this will get her to be more on top of things. Since there was a judgment, everything got a lien put on it. Vehicles, property, etc.
At that time, Tami had went through 2 suburban's. They weren't new but were in good shape. She likes to drive fast and is very hard on vehicles. A 4 or 6 cylinder just won't cut it. She's a nut! She'll burn something like that up in a few months. One suburban lost an engine and the other a transmission and they were V8's! So we went out and found a 3rd suburban that was older but looked, smelled and drove like brand new. It only had about 90k miles on it and it was 14 years old. It was a rare find.
A couple of weeks later, Tami was driving in Casa Grande and rear ended a woman and totaled it. A few days after, she informed me that she never put it on our insurance policy. I was much more upset this time. I just couldn't comprehend how she would make 2 huge insurance mistakes in a matter of a few weeks. I figured she was going to get sued but it never happened. They looked her up and saw she didn't have anything so apparently they just took the loss. I didn't know what to think. Only then did I really get on her ass. I was always easy on her, and that can't be honestly disputed. I never bought a new car for Tami. I told her if she would take care of her car properly for 6 months, I'd get her a new one. She never did. Little pieces of paper and trash stuck in every door panel, and everywhere else she could cram something in. But, Tami was never with a car for long. Anybody that knows her, knows I always kept her in a car.
THE CENTRAL HOUSE
At the end of this summer, (2021), we have a couple of storms. I've paid homeowners insurance on the Central house for decades. The storm knocks down some of the fence and tears up some of the roof. A couple of years prior, the insurance company contacted us and said they didn't like the vines on the roof and the roof needed to be repaired where a swamp cooler once was. We removed the vines and repaired the roof. That was the last thing I knew. I assumed we still had the same insurance company. I ask Tami to file a claim. She said that after the roof and vine event that they would only pay "cash value" and I didn't understand what that meant so I asked her to file a claim anyway. I don't hear anymore about it. After she's gone I see a big envelope with their name on it. I open it up and see that it's a new policy taken out on Aug 11, 2021.
I'm thinking the storms happened around that time frame so I check historical weather data for Coolidge and see low wind speeds like 12, 8, 24, etc. On the 10th it was 219. I don't know where they read that at, but it wasn't 219. It was bad but not 219. That meant she got the policy the day AFTER the storm. UNBELIEVABLE! There's another $12k down the toilet
It's a no brainer that bills are kept up with and things are paid on time. It's life. Not having money to pay them is one thing but we had the money. Asking her to keep up with things though gave her the opportunity to broadcast to everyone that I was 'talking down to her' or 'demeaning her', from what her friends told me. I was just begging my woman and business partner to stay on top of the bills, insurance, etc. I wasn't loud and I never said any of the things I've now heard I supposedly said, like ' you're worthless', 'can't you do anything right', or anything of the sort. That's an outright lie.
At this point I'm feeling like Tami really just doesn't care and isn't going to make the effort. Her makeup is obviously more important.
Now I'm frustrated and not sure what to do about it. I beg her over and over to stay on top of things, but nothing changes for the better. In fact it becomes worse. I never get the slightest satisfaction from Tami about any it. The distance grows between us, in every respect.
TAMI'S DAUGHTERS
While Tami's daughters were living in the Central house they do very, very little to keep the place up. It's always a disgusting mess. Filthy kitchen, bathroom and house as a whole. The yard is a disgrace. When I helped Tami and Rich move one time, it was pretty neasty. I assumed Tami had 2 girls and a husband that were messy and just gave up.
Fact is, she is where the girls learned it from.
After living in the house for a while, I find out one has moved her boyfriend in without telling me. I wasn't charging them rent until then. He's useless, contributes nothing, has no appreciation for anything, and doesn't lift a finger to do anything. He's 1/2 a man at best.
Once I figure out he's living there, I tell them $500 a month. They never once mow the lawn or make much effort at keeping the place clean. In the middle of this, one daughter has moved to Phoenix with a new boyfriend that she's pregnant by. It's her 2nd kid. She got pregnant at 15 the first time. She didn't learn anything about birth control, obviously. I think it was deliberate. She wanted out of Coolidge, and this was her opportunity. Once there, it's a non-stop battle. They're young and underfunded, which is practically always the problem. The cops are called over and over. We had to go up a couple of times and deal with things. They eventually lose their apartment. She moves back into the house house with her sister and her useless boyfriend. Now there's 3 and they still don't make much effort keeping the place up. I grew up there so this is pissing me off. I ask Tami to talk to them over and over but nothing changes.
After a while, the same daughter asks if her useless boyfriend she lived with in Phoenix can move down, and I agree, to try and be nice. Now there's 4 people living there and they can't keep either the house or yard taken care of. The 2 guys are supposed to be 'landscapers' but they're aren't doing any of that there. They're just laborers who know nothing, and always do as little as possible.
Around 2014 we decide to go to Tami's cabin for the weekend. She asks her other daughter to watch the house. She was told to not have anybody out, but doesn't listen of course, and had a couple of punks out from town. At the time I had several computers that were mine and Vanisa's, and I was transferring all of the documents, pictures and files from decades of our lives together onto laptops and backup drives. I had 3 laptops, one of which was brand new in the box.
After her daughter leaves, and her punk friends come back out and take it all. I lost everything from 30 years of my life. Every picture, document, records, etc. It was devastating. The cops are useless. They spoke to her and of course she doesn't know anything. She never had an ounce of remorse that I could tell. This doesn't make things better between Tami and I at all. They're unapologetic and ungrateful.
Later, after I was able to get them out of the house I see it's going to have to be remodeled completely. It's incredibly filthy. We hauled out 5 - 16 foot trailer loads of trash and furniture. I never get the least bit of gratitude from any of them, including Tami.
THE ACCIDENT
In July of 2016 I take Tami to Tucson to get a lump removed from her breast. On our way back I fell asleep at the wheel. Witnesses said I ran off the road and came back on like I over corrected but I was asleep so the car did whatever it did on it's own. We had gotten up at like 3 o 4 to go. I don't remember anything except the impact that woke me up.
It was bad. I hurt bad. Broken ribs into my lungs, broken neck, wrist, heel. They air evac'd us out. Amazingly, Tami only had a split lip and a dislocated hip. She was asleep at the time. She was out of the hospital in a few hours. I was in a coma for just short of 3 weeks and in the hospital for a few months.
Once I was out of the hospital a while the permanent damage began to show itself. My left pelvis and ankle are in constant pain. I've been to my neurologist many times, but they can't figuring out what's wrong, or make things any better, so I just exist and suffer. I've found most doctors are incompetent, but thank God I've had a few that were stellar. It's the only reason I survived. Pain pills, and even morphine do nothing. It never ends. Sleep is my only escape. I'm hurt bad, but I keep after it, trying to get better. There's only other option is to die. I had to learn to walk again, food tastes different, all my extremities are weird, etc. It's been rough. It was a big day when I could finally dress myself.
Things continue on but I notice Tami is going out with her friends a lot more. I'm not controlling so I have no problem with letting her be her. She'd never given me a reason not to. One time things did seem a little strange, so I tracked her on an app we had in our phones in case they were lost, to a band that was playing at a place in Hidden Valley. I watched from a distance and found her sitting there with her friend. In retrospect, I was probably early, and should have hung out a little longer.
Something hadn't been quite right lately, and I wanted to check it out. I messaged Tami and told her I had been there. I'm sure she was amused because she wasn't doing anything at that moment. Not long after, she deleted the app. It was unreliable and would show us at places we weren't. A couple of times it showed me over in Heartland ranch when I had been nowhere near there and Tami questioned me about it. Once I took one of our dogs out to the river bottom after getting a soda, and she went flying by on the road chasing a truck that had been in front of me. She came to where I was and questioned me about who I was talking to. She was clearly upset, and thought I was cheating or carrying on with someone else. I had no idea who was in the truck. They were just in front of me on the road.
Things continue on but she makes no real effort to get things straight. Bills are late. She's still sending me wrong phone numbers, etc. I'm spending hours calling the wrong people. It try to talk to her but it never goes anywhere good, no matter how gentle I am with her. Those that know me know I don't play when it comes to work. I'm on it, and on the guys. But with Tami, I'm much easier.
Now, she's going out with her friends a lot more. Now I know what she was doing, thanks to her friends coming and spilling their guts.
After the accident I had to sleep sitting up, like a hospital bed. I couldn't lay down, so I slept on the couch. It took months to start sleeping laying down. A little while later, after I could get around better, Tami and I have another argument about the house, the girls, the business and insurance, etc. She refuses to give me any satisfaction once again, so I decide to sleep in the motorhome where I can be left alone and rest. I'm not happy. I'm up at all hours. I'm just existing, trying to get better, trying to get Tami to change things, because I'm worried about the future, and how we're going to survive if I can't keep working. Sleep is a commodity at this point. I'm struggling to survive.
Sometimes I wheeze and snore. I try putting pillows between us so she doesn't hear me, and it helped somewhat but not enough. I'm very self conscious about this. This whole thing is a nightmare. I'm hurt bad, I'm getting old, and the future isn't looking particularly bright. My self esteem is in the toilet. It's looking like I'll never be back to anything where normal. Now, I just have to do what I can. And no matter what I do, it's painful. I didn't want to bother her when we were sleeping, and I didn't want to be bothered. The best choice was for me to sleep in the motorhome as our 2nd bedroom was Tami's dressing room.
Tami goes to a friends wedding in Texas with one of her daughters in July or August. They're gone a week. I was hoping to be able to go on a road trip with her, but her parents suddenly decided they're going on a trip and ask Tami to come along. They're gone a couple of weeks. Things are weird. Something wasn't right, but I went on grinding it out as usual. Tami was going to go to Florida with her daughter for a week sometime in November.
My current project at the time was planting around 40 palo verde trees, a bunch of other plants and the watering systems to add some color to the place. I won't be around to see it all mature but I wanted things to be nice for Tami after I was gone. Tami cares nothing about it. In fact she hates that I've always got 'projects' that I'm working on. Well, that's how it works. I've got 5 acres and there's always work to be done. Just sitting on my ass isn't how I operate. Somehow that's a character flaw to Tami.
About a week after she got back from the trip with her parents I come in from work. She's made dinner and puts my plate down and says "we need to talk". When she does this I know it's something big so I said, "What now"? She proceeds to tell me she met her "soulmate" and is moving to Ohio to be with him. I was stunned. She tells me that she was walking across a parking lot in Wyoming or someplace and a guy was on a facetime call with another guy in Ohio. The other guy asks his friend to call Tami over.
Apparently they talked and hit it off. So much so that over the next few conversations they decide they need to be together in Ohio.
Later I learn, she was on the hunt for a way out of here. As she put it, "It was an opportunity." She was about to be exposed for what she is. A whore. And I don't say that lightly. But what's coming up will be pretty shocking to most people. It certainly was me.
This is a woman that rarely goes to her own cabin in the winter in Pine. She's decided to leave me at 60 and crippled, the business, the animals, her kids, grandchildren and parents to move to Ohio to be with a man she's never met in person to live in a travel trailer. This is how desperate she was. I swear, you can't make this stuff up! But this was only the beginning of this sick tale.
They immediately change their facebook profiles to say they 'got married' on Sept 1 which isn't true. They're playing kids games.
Tami declares him the "best man ever". Unbelievable. She strips the house of everything she can and puts it into storage. She even took the coasters! She took antique pieces I had for many years before I met her. She leaves a chair, sofa, tv stand, tv, 4 tables and the bed and she's gone. I just let her take it. I'll buy more. She goes to Glendale where the 'best man ever' is going to come pick her up and they're off.
Who does this?
Over the next few months several former friends came and told me what she'd had been up to, and the real history of Tami.
First, that she was known as a whore in school, and she's always been a cheater. It's a game to her. She cheated on her ex-husband throughout their marriage. Her ex husband confirmed all of it. And these weren't 'affairs' she was having. This was like, get banged in an alley, backseat, and probably a dumpster. This wasn't just a few flings. This was like record breaking, sport fucking.
There were lots of someone's. Literally hundreds, and I'm not kidding. I've been told this by more than 1 of her closest friends. It was a game all of them played apparently. Young, old, ugly, it didn't seem to matter as long as they got notches on their headboard.
Tami always took a lot of selfies and posted them on instagram, facebook, snapchat, etc. She wanted to be an 'influencer' but she wasn't willing to put in the work it takes to make it happen, like everything else in her life. I've said many times she could, and should have done something different with her life, but she got knocked up young, had kids and stayed in Coolidge. Even under those conditions she could have done something, but she didn't. Screwing around has always been a top priority for her, and I know where it comes from now. A little more on that in a bit.
Tami's an attention seeker. She was going to the American Legion, which I thought was safe enough, but I was wrong. That's where she met her prior 'soulmate' according to her friends. They had the same birthday. He used her and left town without her after a little while. He was here working, and Tami gave herself away hoping he'd take her with him. He was smarter than that though apparently.
Who knows how many others there've been. She told me she was upset that her friend who told me about her cheating had "put that shit in my head", as if there was no truth to any of it. If you ask Tami, she doesn't regret any of it after finally getting her to admit to it.
She claimed, 'I used the men I sexed with'. It wasn't, 'I had sex with'. She's coined her own term for it. She 'sexed' with them. Wow! Now we're getting deeply mental. For a long time she tried to make it out like she wasn't getting enough attention here and went out to find some. The fact is, she's been a whore and cheater her entire life. It didn't matter what I did, it would never be enough. Once, after we had sex, she went to Casa Grande and had sex with her friends son I found out later on.
Once when her and one of her friends went to the cabin without me, Tami picked up some guy from a bar, brought him back to the cabin and they had sex in front of her friend while she smoked a blunt. Classy!
I've been told that often, while I was out working, some guy in a red mustang would come out, pick her up, they'd go out to an area near where we lived, and come back in 1/2 an hr. Did anybody say anything to me, or give me a clue? Of course not.
It's clear now this has all been a lie. Her entire life has been a lie. She's expects loyalty, but has never given it.
Towards the end she started freaking out about things. Like if I'm washing my hands in the sink, when I get done I do what dishes are there. I always have. Most women would be elated if their man did that. But not Tami. She gets mad and takes it as 'she doesn't keep up with the housework', which is true, but not the reason I'm doing it. I take care of things as I move along. Often she would push me out of the way and take over. All pissed off of course.
If I say 'Baby, millions of people around the world do books and run small businesses everyday', it turns into, 'you think millions of other people are smarter than me'. She's a nut. It's like trying to talk to a mentally ill leftist. The lights are on but nobody's home.
Obviously she's been laying the groundwork for this for some time. I know now she'd been telling her daughters and friends for well over a year that we're 'not getting along'. She'd play the innocent angel that was emotionally deprived and abused by an ogre. The reality of it all was, we weren't arguing or anything of the sort. This was jest part of her plan. Her new 'man' has no idea what he's in for but I'd imagine it's just a matter of time.
Tami's shallow, insecure, attention seeking and menopausal middle aged nymphomaniac who probably has VD of some sort but won't listen and get checked out. She sleeps around for attention and validation. She's left her life, her man, the business, our pets, her children and grandchildren to move to a place I know she hates with someone she never even met until he came to pick her up is at the very least irrational, certainly sad, and probably mentally ill. She's running away because she got caught.
It never dawned on me before but Tami is the textbook example of a narcissist. No matter what I did I was the villain and she was the angel. Me never cheating and always working hard to provide meant nothing. Me trying to plan for her future was of no importance, because she knew she wasn't going to be around for it. In her mind she excuses her cheating as a "natural and emotionless act". I'm not making this stuff up. You'll hear the entire recordings of my conversations with 2 of her former very close friends the way I heard it. I would have never known the depth of Tami's depravity if it were not for them. I have many recordings of her and her friends, along with dozens and dozens of text messages to prove every word of what I'm saying is true.
Here's where her game started falling apart. In 2020 I was doing a duct job and Tami's ex came out to help me. In the course of a conversation he told me he had been with one of the women in the recordings, after the divorce. I happened to mention it to Tami several months later. I could tell she wasn't happy about it, but she really didn't carry on. Little did I know, she was VERY pissed off about this.
A few months later this woman and her boyfriend were having trouble. They always were. They'd been on and off for a long time. He was deciding if he was going to listen to his kids, who hated her, or get back with her. They'd said it was either them or her. He came out to our house to drop off his dog we were watching for him while he was moving and spoke to Tami. He said he was going to take her friend to Hawaii and propose. He chose her over his kids. What a fool. Tami starts telling him about all the men this woman had been with in the 2 weeks since they had been broken up, this time, and needless to say, he wasn't happy. She'd been sucking and fucking strangers whenever, wherever. That's the common thread between her and Tami. It's a shameless game.
He immediately called her and told her they were through. Then she went to our house to talk to Tami. Tami and her got into it. After that she came to town, saw me at Autozone, came in and proceeded to tell me about Tami screwing around. I listened, but took it with a grain of salt. These womena re crazy so I wanted to verify it, but my ears perked up, that's for sure. Some of the men Tami "sexed with", was Shannon "The Cannon" Ritch, Scott Worman from 'The Gallopin Goose', and some others including her former friends son she used to babysit, and change his diaper. She started in with him while he was a minor, as you'll hear in the recording, but claims they didn't have sex till years later.
When I got home I asked Tami about it and she denied it all. She even had the nerve later on to complain that I was "listening to other people over her". I wasn't wound up about it. I didn't yell or scream. I just told her I'd figure it out on my own. I had no idea what was coming.
Her house of cards was crumbling. She knew I was going to not only find out about her extensive and years long sleeping around with lots of men but how poorly she'd been handling the books, and the insurance. She had to find someone, somewhere that would take her in so she could make her escape. She couldn't afford to do anything by herself. She needed someone that would know nothing of her history, support her, buy into her bullshit, and give her the attention she needs, for now.
Since the initial writing of this Tami has admitted that she had to leave "before you put me out". First she claims it was because of "I'm doing this for me! I've raised my kids!", then it was the business". then it was so I could "save up a little nestegg to retire". It was all bullshit. Funny how it happened shortly after her getting exposed. In reality, she knew I was going to find out about everything and needed an exit strategy.
Now this is a particularly disgusting part of this. There was a time when Tami's junk started smelling. Yeast infections are common in women so I figured she had one. But, a couple of months later my junk start stinking. It never occurred to me they were related, or that Tami had been cheating. In hind sight, I don't know how much stupider I could have been. I had an ear infection around that time and I had to do two rounds of antibiotics to get it taken care of. After that, I didn't stink anymore. I never put 2 and 2 together until recently. She knew but didn't tell me a thing. She didn't even go to the doctor for herself! As far as I know she's still got it, along with the whoever she's had sex with. Tami's very literate. If you listen carefully though, she'll slip up, like when I mentioned VD in a message. Her response was, 'Nobody's complained since". It wasn't , 'Greg hasn't complained.' I'm sure she's up to her old tricks. She's a great actress so I'm sure he doesn't know, unless he's like her Mom and Dad, he's in on it, and likes to watch. A cuck.
Draw your own conclusions from the recordings. But with these two corroborating on so many points, it's clear that it's all true. I've been told a lot more that isn't in the recordings. Tami's cheap and easy to get.
Here's a list of her known relations that I've learned of. Apparently, there's many, many more.
Shannon "The Cannon" Ritch (Went on for years and he went to the cabin when I wasn't there during 'Women's Vacation')
Chase Madoneczky (Her friends son. This went on for some time. Tami babysat him when he was a baby!)
Scott Worman (Apparently this went on for several years as well)
Paco (Some very young mexican dope dealer kid around town)
Manuel (Went on for years apparently early on)
Shane Skinner (Who knows where this guy came from. Probably a parking lot somewhere).
Justin Carter (Apparently lovers since school)
Unknown (Some guy she picked up in a bar near the cabin and fucked him in front of her friend).
Thomas (Tami's prior 'soulmate' that left town without her).
Billy Petty (Not about this one. She's got pics in her phone of him). Probably!
Plus 10 different men, other than those mentioned, at the cabin when I didn't go. according to her closest friends.
Only Tami knows, if she can keep track herself. When I first met Tami, she told me her friend had slept with 300 men. I couldn't believe it. She was only about 36. Afterwards, and in the recording, she explains how they were fooling around and tried to figure out an 'average' of how many men they each had slept with, and Tami had won. So that means Tami has been with over 300 men.
This is insane! Her friend had slept with 4 or 5 of my employees, while she was with her 'boyfriend'. Neither have ever denied the sleeping with over 300 men thing. Between them it's a competition. As unbelievable as it sounds, it's not.
As long as Tami's warped sense of being 'happy' is satisfied, that's all that's important Nobody, and nothing else matters. We're all just objects. "My man", "My grandbabies", "My daughters", "Richard XXXXX", "friend", etc. It's called 'disassociation' in psychiatric circles. She would seldom use their names.
She craves 'attention' and has no conscience or regret about any of this.
I was told by one former friend that Tami's dad made the girls dress up and parade around when they were kids. Who knows what else went on. They said her mom knew what was going on, and allowed it. Her were prison guards. The girls and their friends used to get into the box they hid under their bed with all of their sex toys in it. Everything they used during their orgy's and sexual romps. That's probably a big part of why both daughters are so messed up now and have been for years. Her sister let her boyfriend or whatever he was sexually abuse her daughter. She got taken away and raised by someone else.
This is how sick these people are.
Not a single word I've said here is untrue and I've got the proof. The timeline might be off a bit but I'm not embellishing a thing. In fact there's more that I haven't gotten into.
These are the facts I've learned since she left. If it hadn't have been for her former friends I still wouldn't have known the depths of her depravity, treachery, dishonesty and betrayal. Her facebook posts are comical. She a professional virtue signaler posting memes about 'love', 'loyalty', 'gratefulness', etc. It's comical and sad at the same time.
Like I said, I've never met anyone like Tami, or been put in such a situation before and that's why I've divulged all I have here. I'm hard on the guys, but I've never been as hard on Tami. That's all bullshit. She played the victim well, and they lapped it all up. Not a single one has ever heard, let alone seen me do anything of the sort.
She used to watch a lot of 'husband murders wife', and 'wife murders husband' shows. Now it's all making sense. i see she's been doing that a lot there and posting on her facebook page. I wonder what she's up to, because she doesn't do anythnig without 'purpose'.
Here's just a few screenshots of messages she's sent. There's plenty more. In some others she talks about him shoving her around, threatening to put her out of the truck, etc. Maybe he's on to something about her. Who knows?
She's living a lie. The life she chose.
